First - THE LABIA

Here's an anatomy refresher: there's the majora (the larger outer lips) and the minora (the inner area connected to your clitoris). The labia minora, especially, are the source of many questions. Doctors we spoke to reported that women worry their inner labia are too long, too short, too lumpy, or too lopsided. 

I've wondered if something was wrong with me, because mine are bumpy and stick out." Obstetrician/gynaecologist (ob-gyn) explains that these bumps and ridges in the labia form naturally, and they can and do look like broccoli - nothing weird there. "All of this is normal and healthy," says Dr Naina. Asymmetry is also standard for any body part that comes in twos (see: your almost-definitely-not-the-same-size boobs). As for length, short and long are both common.

The only time you should worry is if your labia cause you any pain, especially if they are getting pulled into your vagina during sex. This is probably the only scenario, ob-gyn Dr Naina says, that would justify labiaplasty, a surgical procedure that shortens or reshapes the lips. "That's a functional issue, not a cosmetic one," she says.

Second - THE CLITORIS

Bigger doesn't mean better (though it might make the spot a little easier for your partner to find). One caveat, says Dr Naina: if your clitoris is protruding past your labia when you're not aroused, it could be a sign of excess testosterone, which in rare cases can be a sign of an underlying ovarian mass that could be cancerous. Check with your doctor if you're concerned, but otherwise, experts say, all shapes and sizes lead to the same good time.